Reading Vagina Problems by Lara Parker

I love non-fiction - so much so that this blog is probably poorly named. Yet the book I’m going to write about in this blog was pretty difficult to read. It had nothing to do with the writing and a lot to do with the fact that it crossed the line from reading non-fiction to…

Different, not better: trying (and failing) to ignore my body

I have spent 12 months trying to ignore my body. My body has spent 12 months demonstrating how and why that is an impossible endeavour. This week it has been a year since I last published a blog and a year since I last (intentionally) sought medical intervention for endometriosis - happy birthday to my…

The fun part? | Pleasure Moans #1

Try not to intellectualise your bodily experiences (much too late for that) If you start dating again, you're likely to unconsciously pick someone with erectile dysfunction (can I unknow this?) When you're ready, try penetration but on your own (oh shit, here we go) Those are the three nuggets of wisdom my sex therapist gave me when we finished…