The fun part? | Pleasure Moans #1

Try not to intellectualise your bodily experiences (much too late for that) If you start dating again, you're likely to unconsciously pick someone with erectile dysfunction (can I unknow this?) When you're ready, try penetration but on your own (oh shit, here we go) Those are the three nuggets of wisdom my sex therapist gave me when we finished…

Where I’m at #Periodically 32

The last couple of months have seen me finally achieve some sense of stability with pain management and general wellbeing. I'm able to exercise again, I've completed a round of psychosexual counselling and I've started a new chapter by beginning my masters in gender and sexuality studies at the LSE. But what do these changes…

Admitting Defeat? #Periodically 26

Technically speaking, it's been almost two months since I last shared a personal update on my tricky situation. Why the hiatus? I'm not sure. I guess my oversharing side took a backseat and I decided, for the first time in a year, to just dwell on things in private. When I write these blogs I…