“While you’re unconscious…” | Pleasure Moans #2

There I was, sitting in the waiting room of my community hospital trying to read Papillion. I say trying because I was very distracted. It was my last week of term, I was, as I made clear in my last post, absolutely pooped. But more distracting than any of the assignments, deadlines and very real desire to…

The fun part? | Pleasure Moans #1

Try not to intellectualise your bodily experiences (much too late for that) If you start dating again, you're likely to unconsciously pick someone with erectile dysfunction (can I unknow this?) When you're ready, try penetration but on your own (oh shit, here we go) Those are the three nuggets of wisdom my sex therapist gave me when we finished…

Where I’m at #Periodically 32

The last couple of months have seen me finally achieve some sense of stability with pain management and general wellbeing. I'm able to exercise again, I've completed a round of psychosexual counselling and I've started a new chapter by beginning my masters in gender and sexuality studies at the LSE. But what do these changes…